Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Is it wrong to be single?

The last time I had an official girl friend was October 2004, due to the fact that I am rather picky of who can actually call herself Miss Adrian. Not too long ago I walked pass some ladies in my office talking and heard one say "Ask Adrian he can buy one" Clearly this was a ploy to get me to ask what so I indulged them. One of them was apparently selling basket orders for Valentine's day. I eloquently responded "buy basket fi who".

At this point in time they were quite shocked, one asked if I was single, another asked if I was gay. They then proceeded to talk about me refusing to believe I was single so I injected that I was indeed just single and not gay... only to hear one of them mutter "yeah him don't look gay" WTF!&#!. They then proceeded to question me as to why I was single and I explained that I didn't like the quality of women I am seeing these days then exited that conversation. I guess its safe to assume that everybody else in my office has a significant other based off of their reactions.

Maybe one of them will hook me up even though I doubt I would like their friends. Fast forwarding a few hours earlier I was walking back from the bathroom and I came across the office apple of my eye. I had long given up on her as she confirmed a few weeks back that she was indeed 30+ and I was convinced I was too young for her but she surprised me today by asking me if I was up for lunch today. Her saying "call me when you are ready and I'll drop what I'm doing" and "Its a date" got that ball rolling again in my head. I was all smiles after that as I rushed off to a meeting I was late for.

The meeting was long and boring as usual but the food was good. So good that I had about four sandwiches, three banana nut muffins and a couple glasses of juice. Needless to say I was full at the end of the meeting but it was now after 12 and time for my lunch date. I went to her and explained the situation but still offered to accompany her and we had a good time together. I am torn as to whether or not I should pursue this not so young lady.

I have told my friend about apple and she doesn't seem to like her. This friend uses me as a booty call ever so often has expressed nanny will lock off if apple comes into the picture. I suspect this breaks some booty call rules but its understandable, so I imagine the question becomes: Do I want to throw away the young, hot, fun piece of ass for an old girl and a steady relationship? I am leaning towards yes but this whole office affair just raises red flags all over my head which can't be ignored. Drama is one thing I have made ever effort to avoid but this is hard.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

NEVER dip your pen in company ink.

Kingston Girl said...

they can easily believe tha tyou are not in a serious relationship. However, what they obviously find harder to believe is that you don't have several women hanging around who you need to send baskets to in order to keep them sweet! For example, I know of one guy who sent 14 baskets on valentines day, of differing sizes depending on how frequently he wanted something from the receiver!

Adrian said...

14 baskets eh? I'm not that kind of guy.

Roses are lame but maybe 1 lucky miss can get one from me this vday :p

Stunner said...

Pursue mi yute, pursue! Of course your friend will be jealous, it will mean less booty calls for her...well maybe not if yuh drinking yuh babba roots and ginseng! But it's better to try it than to live with the "what if I had"!

Dr. D. said...

Go for whatever you feel comfy with!

bassChocolate said...

Booty calls may come and go, but a good old woman lasts forever...

I have no clue what I just said.

gela said...

Hmmm. Welllllll, if not so young(not a flattering description by the way Mr. A, I fall squarely in that 30+ category) I would say go for it if she seems like she's worthy to be Miss Adrian. Can start with few 'innocent' dates to test the waters, see how she feels. If relationship comes to fruition that booty will just have to get called by someone else.

I'm wary of office relationships though, can be problematic, especially if the person is into drama. But I know several relationships leading to marraige actually start there.

Just leave the office desks out of the equasion please!

Teenage Perfectionist said...

nuff respect adrian. older women have more experience. You may have the best sex of your life papi. Good luck.

Adrian said...

lol hush ya Gela.. nothing wrong with being not so young, think of it as being experienced :D

SimplEnigma said...

LMAO @ "Never dip your pen in company ink..."

Dem say new broom sweep clean but old broom know the corners...yuh want your floor clean, or you want di corner dem sweep? LOL.

Long time ago, you couldn't catch me dating anyone less than 5 years my senior...but as I slowly creep towards 30, I've come to appreciate the younger things in life. Hehe...

P.S. Nothing wrong with being single...I've been single all my life.

see no evil said...

i say you should go for the older potential relationship. relationships are way better and fun than some booty call. you need someone you can share things with other than sex....
go for it....before its too late