Tuesday, January 15, 2008

from the origins to the end

So she called me at 1:30am and asked if she could sleep over, it had been over a year since I've last seen/spoken to her. Seeing that I was fast asleep, dazed and confused I said sure without giving it much thought. It only took her a minute to drive over so I went outside let her in and went back to bed, the only light on in the house was a candle to repel mosquitoes(yeah I'm a bad host). She stood by my room door and asked if I wasn't going to give her a tour.. I had forgotten this was the first time she was coming to this place.

After the tour I went back to bed assuming she would find something to do with herself or sleep too but she said she was wide awake and seemed like she wanted to talk. She took off her skirt and snuggled up right beside me leaving a large empty space on the other side of the bed and about 1foot of space for me to sleep, yep we were back to square one like it was 2005 and I just met her again. It will be sad if we have to talk about why she and I would never work out again.

She behaved herself and only asked a few questions about what I had been up before allowing me to sleep after I explained to her I had prior obligations at 6:30am. Of course by the time she left me alone I was wide awake and she dozed off leaving me trying to wrap my mind around what was going on. I was proud of myself, a hot woman in a g-string was laying on my chest and I had no desire to do anything with her(self control: tick). Knowing her that probably got her juices flowing even more but she probably knows I will never go down that road again.

I would love if we could be friends again, she was very fun to hang out with but I don't think she is willing to settle for that alone. She said she disappeared for so long because she can't control her feelings around me, sounds like a hot steaming pile of bs to me but I guess there may be some truth to it. I will always remember how she took me under her wing and ensured I lived a pampered life when I first moved out on my own at 22... thanks Original!

How random.

On an off topic of random things, last month I noticed someone new, Clivia, linked to me(thanks) and put me in a new section by myself labeled "Male Bloggers - Men that write ..how SEXY". I have since been trying to figure out if that's a good or bad thing. Everything on her site is carnival or Trini related then there is me. go figure.


SimplEnigma said...

LOL. Clivia's a friend. Real cool.

Like I said back then, the woman wanted a good schtuping. You're right: giving in would've confused her and made her think of possibilities. Good for you that you didn't. I make it a point not to have dudes sleeping in my bed if I don't plan to take it all the way (with maybe 4 or 5 exceptions who are like really cool friends)

Cliviaalana said...

haha...most of my blog is carnival related...
and Men that write ARE sexy....it's all good

Crankyputz said...

Think being linked in a section that includes the word sexy is a good thing.

Kudos for you for keeping your composure. On the flip side there is nothing sexier than a man who doesn't touch you whilst your lying there practically naked...

Ann (MobayDP) said...


I wonder what was going through her head.

Irie Diva said...

im wondering that too...
this story needs some fleshing out cus a girl who invites u in to just "sleep" is very weird to me...

u sed she had a bf so i guessing she liked you and just wanted to eff you. why did u wean her off again? cus of this same reason? (the bf)

if so i guess i understand a lil better now...forgive the slowness :P and she was jus feeling lonely that night....hmmm

if u didnt want to give it up then why did u let her into ur house at 1am tho? hmmmm

GC said...

I just can't keep up

so I'll just zero in on what really matters to me--the apartment is completely finished and repaired enough for company to come by.

Adrian said...

@gc: ya the place is mostly finished.. she complained about the paint smell from outside but forgot about it once she got inside. They are only doing work outside now.

@diva: lol you answered most of the questions on your own and got them right :) There is too much story behind Original to flesh out so just be glad you got a story unlike the "story" you gave us in that pop down post.. hrmpff!

So I need to let off some on any girl I hang out with after hours? I let her in coz she caught me when I was dead asleep and confused.

@ann: I like to think of myself as a good catch.. maybe she always rued the day I went away :p

@cranky: girls are crazy.. I would be pissed if I was in that position.

@clivia: what I meant to say was the links on your blog are mostly carnival related.

@se: aint nothing wrong if they know how to behave themselves :D

Irie Diva said...

"So I need to let off some on any girl I hang out with after hours? "

of course!!!!!

and i did do a better post but its on a different blog :P

too many people know who irie diva is, i needed yet another ego :)

Mad Bull said...

>> nothing sexier than a man who doesn't
>> touch you whilst your lying there
>> practically naked...

No offense, CP, but women are crazy. This is why they wrote that book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".

Ann (MobayDP) said...

Bwoy...I sorry. I don't have any business calling a man up at 1 o'clock in the morning, waking him up out of his bed, going over there without some damn pajamas, TAKING MY SKIRT OFF and lying on top of him unless I intend for him to at least try to have sex with me.

I'll even go so far as to say that if any girl goes through all of that trouble then she must intend for something to happen.

I'd bet any money that original was mightily disappointed.

Stunner said...

I just can't figure out what goes on in the head of women! I agree with MB, CRAZY!

Good going Sir. Adrian, total self control...or yuh did just ratid tired!