Wednesday, August 08, 2007

Castleton.. finally.

So my first taste of freedom began on Monday morning at 8am after I came off my three weeks of standby work. It was the Independence weekend so all the young people (- me) found themselves at Negril as usual. A bunch of us decided to go to Castleton(finally after hearing so many people talking about it recently) after a Portland trip fell through.


We got there a little before noon and there were a few people there but slowly but surely people started to crowd the place as the day went on. The rocks were big and the water was low but enough for the kids to splash in and me to drown in



An interesting tidbit was that in the party of people that we(noodle[wifey] & I) went with was noodle's x-bf who seemingly still likes her. She advised to keep my distance so as to not cause any unnecessary jealousy, brilliant! push away the current to please the x. To mix things up even more, upon arrival a guy by the river called her over and she went over without saying a word. Feeling like chopped liver I stood for a minute looking at her waiting for her to look back for me or even(God forbid) call me over to introduce me to her friend but there was nothing. Eventually when she finished talking to him and I existed again I asked her who the mystery guy was:
me- who was that?
noodle- XXX
me- XXX who? (she knows many XXXs)
noodle- I'll tell you later
me- XXX your x-bf?
noodle- I'll tell you later(then she gets upsets and walks away)

I waited 5+ hours until we were in the car alone driving back to town to ask her again to hear what the big secret was. She then confirms "yes XXX my x-bf". Maybe I am slow but I am still lost as to why this information couldn't be shared before if there was the slightest possibility of somebody else hearing or why I was hidden away from him like a leper..

I just wrote it off to girl problems and moved on as you can see noodle and I throwing balls at each other. One final note, its not my baby.

17 comments:

owen said...

Women are iffy about exs, secret lovers and skeletons in their closets. good at keeping secrets they are

I'm sure that "its not my baby thing" is not going to hold up in a court case. Shes totally sending that to her parents.

bobby said...

was there actually two ex's i am confused ....any ways welcome to the twisted world of a woman... just love her and every thing will fall into place... well thats what worked for me these pass 18 yrs

Crankyputz said...

that's not nice, she should have been able to introduce you, its a respect thing and i am sure shit would have hit the fan had the situation been reveresed...

SimplEnigma said...

I'm with CP. That is NOT a woman thing, she disrespected u twice, IMHO.

In my post a few months back I said that was one of the signs to tell if someone is into you - when they introduce you to everyone they speak to. I still think it's true.

There is no way in hell I'm going to tell my man to keep away to prevent my X from getting jealous or not introduce him as my man...unless I still had feelings for the X.

I wouldn't accept my man doing either of those things to me, so I wouldn't do it either.

Eedyiat ting dat.

GC said...

maybe she was afraid one of you would try to attack the other.

Anonymous said...

I dunno GC, Adrian doesn't seem like the attacking type..He strikes me as a pretty rational, reasonable type who would juss hail up dudes and keep it moving...but I could be wrong.

Anonymous said...

I dunno GC, Adrian doesn't seem like the attacking type..He strikes me as a pretty rational, reasonable type who would juss hail up dudes and keep it moving...but I could be wrong.

Adrian said...

@bobby: yeah.. 2 x's one was part of our party the other was just wrong place wrong time.

@cranky: exactly.. im sure she would have blown up if the tables were turned..

@simple: what should I do?

@gc/anonymous: Adrian is a lover not a fighter :p

lol cool like the other side of the pillow.

Kingston Girl said...

sounds fun - i bet castleton was pack out that day - did you see lots of bus trips?

taylor2nd said...

lol @ baby pic.. very politician. i need to get out ma yard star

Stunner said...

Ahh, Castleton, a very relaxing place. You got some nice shots.

I think she should have introduced you, me definately woulda feel a way.

bobby said...

@ Stu straight up on that one, two ex's, damn i prefer having so much Ex's in my movies.

SimplEnigma said...

LMAO @ Bobby.

@ Adrian, dunno what YOU should do cos you know wifey best, but women will take advantage if they sense you are a pushover.

I'd have to let my BF know that I'm not going to accept that type of treatment and ask him how he'd feel if the shoe were on the other foot.

That would bother me, and try as I might I wouldnKt be able fi kibba mi mout' (which probably explains why I'm single). LOL.

Fiyah said...

Adrian lie yuh sih! Ah your yout' dat man! Own up to it... Look... 'im headback favour yuh ownah head back!

Fih real doh. Ah eediat ting dat weh she do wid both exes. Without jumping to conclusions though I seh yuh jus' talk it out to her to see where her head was when she did what she did...

Kara - Jamaican Woman said...

Thanks SE....bout woman thing...
that is a DRAMA thing...be prepared for a relationship full of drama..i realize that you guys expect and like that ish though..maybe just so u can complain about it will the fellas..lol

Tami said...

Um,my turn. I would however look at the situation from different points of view. While its a bit put off to have introduced you the same maybe she cares enough to not plunge you in a maybe uncomfortable situation for the both of you. Better to avoid than run up in it. I guess its just how you perceive the situation and maybe she wasnt even thinking that you were to get and intro seeing that the other ex had complicated things. Are you sure she not hiding something? Why would an ex come with though? Thats just weird, shouldn't he accept u too?

Irie Diva said...

i wanna be harsh and say the end result was deserved if u sat thru stuff like this from early out...u gotta nip these things in the butt man

this noodle person doesnt seem very respectful...however story is skewed to one side so i can't judge...